You walk into an open house. Twenty other people are there. The listing agent is chatting with someone. You wander through quickly, snap a few photos, and leave. Did you learn anything useful? Probably not.
Open houses are valuable opportunities to see homes without scheduling appointments, gauge competition, and gather information. But most buyers waste them by treating them like casual walk-throughs. With the right strategy, you can learn far more than just what the house looks like.
In this article, you'll learn:
- Benefits of open houses vs private showings
- What to bring and how to prepare
- What to observe beyond the house itself
- Strategic questions to ask listing agents
- Sign-in sheet considerations (privacy vs follow-up)
- How to evaluate virtual tours effectively
- Remote buying strategies for out-of-area buyers
- Follow-up tactics and timing
This article is for you if: You're attending open houses or evaluating homes through virtual tours.
Open House Benefits
Why Attend Open Houses
No appointment needed:
- Drop in anytime during hours
- See multiple homes in one day
- Flexible schedule
- Less pressure
Gauge competition:
- See how many buyers are interested
- Observe other buyers' reactions
- Understand market demand
- Helps with offer strategy
Meet listing agent:
- Get information directly from source
- Ask questions about property
- Learn about seller's situation
- Build relationship (if you like the house)
Casual atmosphere:
- Less pressure than private showing
- Take your time
- Return for second look
- Bring family/friends easily
See neighborhood activity:
- Meet potential neighbors
- Observe weekend vibe
- Check parking situation
- See who lives in area
Open House vs Private Showing
Open house advantages:
- No commitment
- See competition
- Casual environment
- Multiple visits easy
Private showing advantages:
- Your agent present (advocates for you)
- More time and attention
- Ask detailed questions
- Measure and inspect thoroughly
- Less competition pressure
Best strategy: Attend open house first (if available), then schedule private showing with your agent if seriously interested.
What to Bring
Essential Items
Pre-approval letter (copy):
- Shows you're serious buyer
- Helps if you want to make offer
- Don't give original (copy only)
- Keep in car, not in hand
Notepad or phone:
- Take notes on each room
- Write down questions
- Note issues or concerns
- Compare homes later
Phone camera:
- Take photos (if allowed)
- Video walkthrough
- Document issues
- Reference later
Measuring tape:
- Check if furniture fits
- Measure rooms
- Verify dimensions
- Note parking space size
Flashlight:
- Check dark areas
- Look in closets
- Inspect under sinks
- See crawlspace entrance
Your agent's contact info:
- Call if you love it
- Ask questions
- Schedule private showing
- Make offer quickly
Optional But Helpful
Printed listing:
- Reference room sizes
- Check included items
- Note asking price
- Write notes on printout
Comparison checklist:
- Rate each home consistently
- Track pros and cons
- Score key features
- Make decision easier
Bottle of water:
- Stay hydrated
- Seeing multiple homes is tiring
- Long day of open houses
What to Observe
Beyond the House Itself
Buyer traffic:
- How many people attending?
- Are they serious (taking notes, measuring)?
- Multiple visits by same people?
- Indicates: market demand, competition level
Listing agent behavior:
- Professional and knowledgeable?
- Pushy or relaxed?
- Answers questions well?
- Organized with materials?
Neighborhood activity:
- People outside?
- Kids playing?
- Well-maintained homes?
- Friendly neighbors?
Parking situation:
- Street parking available?
- Driveway space?
- Garage size?
- Guest parking?
Noise levels:
- Traffic noise?
- Neighbor noise?
- Airplane noise?
- Barking dogs?
Smells:
- Fresh baked cookies (staged)?
- Musty or moldy?
- Pet odors?
- Smoke smell?
Staging quality:
- Professional staging?
- Owner's furniture?
- Empty?
- Indicates: seller's investment, motivation
Seattle-Specific Observations
Weather impact:
- How's the natural light? (important in Seattle)
- Moisture issues visible?
- Drainage around property?
- Moss on roof or siding?
Commute considerations:
- Proximity to I-5, 520, 405?
- Near light rail or bus lines?
- Bike-friendly area?
- Walkable to amenities?
Neighborhood character:
- Established Seattle neighborhood?
- New development?
- Mixed use (residential + commercial)?
- Gentrifying area?
Questions to Ask Listing Agent
Safe Questions (Won't Hurt You)
About the property:
- How long has it been on market?
- Any offers yet?
- Why is seller moving?
- What's included in sale? (appliances, fixtures)
- When is seller hoping to close?
About disclosures:
- Any issues disclosed?
- Recent repairs or updates?
- Age of major systems? (roof, HVAC, water heater)
- Any HOA special assessments?
About showings:
- How many showings so far?
- Any feedback from buyers?
- Best time for private showing?
- Showing instructions?
About neighborhood:
- How long has seller lived here?
- What do they love about neighborhood?
- Any upcoming development?
- School boundaries?
Questions to Avoid
Don't reveal your position:
- ❌ "What's the lowest price seller will take?"
- ❌ "We're pre-approved for $X"
- ❌ "This is our dream home!"
- ❌ "We need to move by [date]"
Why: Listing agent represents seller. Any information you share can be used against you in negotiations.
Better approach: Keep cards close. Express interest but not desperation. Save detailed questions for your own agent.
Reading Between the Lines
"Seller is motivated":
- Translation: Seller needs to sell quickly
- Opportunity: May accept lower offer
- Ask: Why motivated? (job transfer, financial, etc.)
"Priced to sell":
- Translation: Priced at or below market
- Expect: Multiple offers
- Strategy: Be ready to move fast
"Bring your highest and best":
- Translation: Multiple offers expected
- Reality: Competitive situation
- Strategy: Pre-inspection, strong offer
"Seller will consider all offers":
- Translation: No offers yet, or offers fell through
- Opportunity: Room to negotiate
- Ask: How long on market? Previous offers?
Sign-In Sheet Considerations
To Sign or Not to Sign?
Reasons to sign:
- Get property information packet
- Receive updates on price changes
- Show you're serious buyer
- Listing agent may follow up with helpful info
Reasons not to sign:
- Privacy concerns
- Don't want agent calls
- Just browsing
- Already working with agent
Seattle tip: Most listing agents respect "working with agent" notation. Sign in but note your agent's name and contact.
What to Write
If signing in:
- Name (first name only okay)
- Phone or email (one, not both if privacy concerned)
- "Working with [Your Agent's Name]" (protects you)
- Don't write: pre-approval amount, timeline, motivation
If not signing in:
- Politely decline: "Just browsing, thanks"
- Or: "I'll have my agent reach out if interested"
- Take business card for follow-up
Privacy Protection
What listing agents do with sign-in:
- Follow up with property info
- Call to gauge interest
- Add to mailing list
- Share with seller (shows traffic)
How to protect privacy:
- Use Google Voice number
- Use secondary email
- Note "working with agent" (reduces calls)
- Don't sign if very concerned
Your agent's role:
- Your agent contacts listing agent if interested
- Protects your negotiating position
- Handles all communication
- You stay anonymous until offer
Virtual Tour Evaluation
Types of Virtual Tours
3D walkthrough (Matterport):
- Interactive, you control movement
- See entire home layout
- Measure distances
- Most comprehensive
Video tour:
- Agent or owner walks through
- Narrated or music only
- Shows flow of home
- Less interactive
Photo slideshow:
- Static images
- Basic virtual tour
- Limited information
- Least helpful
Live video tour:
- Real-time with agent
- Ask questions
- Request specific views
- Most like in-person
What to Look For
Photo quality and angles:
- Professional photos: seller invested
- Wide-angle lens: rooms look bigger than reality
- Strategic angles: hiding something?
- Missing rooms: red flag
Lighting:
- Bright and natural: good
- Dark or dim: poor natural light or hiding issues
- Overly edited: not realistic
- Consistent lighting: honest representation
Clutter and staging:
- Professional staging: seller serious
- Owner's stuff: harder to see space
- Empty: can be good or bad
- Clutter: hiding issues or just messy?
What's not shown:
- Basement or crawlspace missing?
- Garage not shown?
- Backyard limited views?
- Bathrooms skipped?
- Red flags: hiding problems
Condition indicators:
- Fresh paint: recently updated or covering issues?
- Worn carpet: needs replacement
- Dated finishes: budget for updates
- Visible damage: disclosed or not?
Virtual Tour Red Flags
Technical issues:
- Blurry photos
- Poor lighting
- Incomplete tour
- Indicates: low effort, possible issues
Strategic omissions:
- Rooms not shown
- Quick pan through areas
- Avoiding certain angles
- Hiding problems
Mismatched descriptions:
- "Spacious" but looks small
- "Updated" but looks dated
- "Move-in ready" but needs work
- Exaggeration or dishonesty
Neighborhood concerns:
- Street view shows issues
- Nearby properties run-down
- Commercial/industrial nearby
- Check Google Maps separately
Remote Buying Strategies
When You Can't Visit in Person
Reasons for remote buying:
- Relocating to Seattle from out of state
- Buying investment property
- Time constraints
- COVID or health concerns
Challenges:
- Can't see in person
- Can't gauge neighborhood
- Harder to assess condition
- More risk
How to Buy Remotely
1. Hire local agent:
- Essential for remote buying
- Your eyes and ears
- Attends showings for you
- Provides honest feedback
2. Request live video tours:
- FaceTime or Zoom with agent
- Walk through together
- Ask agent to show specific areas
- Record for later review
3. Get detailed photos:
- Request additional photos
- Specific areas of concern
- Exterior and neighborhood
- Systems (furnace, water heater, electrical panel)
4. Research neighborhood thoroughly:
- Google Street View
- Crime data (SpotCrime)
- School ratings
- Commute times
- Read our Neighborhood Research Guide
5. Hire inspector you trust:
- Ask agent for recommendations
- Read reviews carefully
- Request detailed report with photos
- Consider video walkthrough with inspector
6. Include strong contingencies:
- Inspection contingency (essential)
- Appraisal contingency
- Final walkthrough in person
- Right to cancel if not as represented
7. Plan final walkthrough:
- Visit before closing if possible
- Or send trusted friend/family
- Verify condition matches expectations
- Check for any changes since offer
Seattle Remote Buying Tips
Understand microclimates:
- Seattle neighborhoods vary significantly
- West Seattle sunnier than North Seattle
- Eastside different from Seattle proper
- Ask agent about specific area
Consider commute carefully:
- Traffic is real issue
- Test commute times on Google Maps (set departure time)
- Light rail access valuable
- Work-from-home flexibility helps
HOA research critical:
- Can't attend HOA meetings in person
- Request all documents
- Ask agent to review carefully
- Consider HOA management company reputation
Hire local professionals:
- Inspector, appraiser, lender familiar with Seattle
- Understand local issues (moisture, seismic, etc.)
- Know local market conditions
- Better service and advice
Follow-Up Strategy
After Open House
Same day:
- Review notes and photos
- Compare to other homes
- Discuss with family
- Decide: interested, maybe, or pass
If interested:
- Call your agent immediately
- Schedule private showing
- Request disclosures and documents
- Prepare to move fast (if competitive)
If maybe:
- Attend second open house (if available)
- Drive by at different times
- Research neighborhood more
- Give it a few days
If passing:
- Note why (for future reference)
- Keep listing for comparison
- Move on to next homes
Working with Listing Agent
If you don't have agent:
- Listing agent can help, but represents seller
- Dual agency possible (not recommended)
- Consider getting your own agent
- Read our What Buyers Agent Does
If you have agent:
- Your agent contacts listing agent
- Protects your interests
- Handles all communication
- Negotiates on your behalf
If listing agent follows up:
- Be polite but non-committal
- "I'm working with an agent, they'll reach out if interested"
- Don't reveal your position
- Don't negotiate directly
Timing Considerations
Hot market (multiple offers expected):
- Act within 24-48 hours
- Schedule private showing immediately
- Get pre-inspection if possible
- Submit offer quickly
Normal market:
- Take a few days to decide
- Schedule showing within a week
- Do thorough research
- Submit offer when ready
Slow market:
- Take your time
- Attend multiple open houses
- Negotiate from stronger position
- Less urgency
Summary: Key Takeaways
- Open houses let you see homes casually, gauge competition, and meet listing agent
- Bring: pre-approval copy, notepad, camera, measuring tape, flashlight
- Observe: buyer traffic, agent behavior, neighborhood, parking, noise
- Ask safe questions about property and disclosures, not about your position
- Sign-in sheet: optional, note "working with agent" if you sign
- Virtual tours: look for what's not shown, check lighting and angles
- Remote buying: hire local agent, request live video tours, strong contingencies
- Follow up quickly if interested (24-48 hours in hot market)
Next Steps
- Find open houses: Check Zillow, Redfin, or ask your agent for weekend list
- Prepare checklist: Print or create phone checklist from this guide
- Plan route: Map out multiple open houses in same area
- Bring tools: Gather items from "what to bring" section
- Take good notes: Document each home thoroughly
- Follow up fast: Contact agent immediately if you love a home
Related articles:
- Reading Zillow/Redfin Listings Like a Pro
- Spotting Issues During Tours
- Neighborhood Research Guide
- What Buyers Agent Does
Additional Resources
Find open houses:
- Zillow: zillow.com (filter by "open house")
- Redfin: redfin.com (open house schedule)
- Realtor.com: realtor.com
- Your agent's weekly email
Virtual tour platforms:
- Matterport: matterport.com
- Zillow 3D Home
- Redfin 3D Walkthrough
Seattle-specific:
- NWMLS open house search (through agent)
- Neighborhood Facebook groups
- Local real estate websites